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Resolving Customer Disputes: Patience, Empathy, And The Ability To Walk Away

Resolving customer disputes can be tricky business, especially when the company isn’t at fault. Despite the saying “the customer is always right,” anyone in customer service knows this isn’t always the case.

I recently returned from a trip to Sydney, Australia where I was the keynote speaker at the SOCAP Australia Symposium. SOCAP, the Society of Consumer Affairs Professionals, includes members from financial services, insurance, telecommunications, and other industries who handle customer complaints.

The event began with remarks from Anoulack Chanthivong, a member of the Australian Parliament and the Minister for Better Regulation and Fair Trading. He spoke about how the Australian government is working hand-in-hand with companies with both reducing complaints and resolving customer disputes. I was struck by the sense of partnership, all in the name of a better customer experience.

After my speech, I had the pleasure of speaking with a young woman who works in dispute resolution at an Australian bank. What I learned from her can be applied to any business looking at resolving customer disputes.

Resolving Customer Disputes In Australia

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In Australia, if a customer files a complaint with their bank, it first goes to an IDR, or Internal Dispute Resolution team. This is similar to standard Customer Service department. Government regulations spell out “how firms must record and respond to complaints, and the timeframes for doing so.”

If the customer and the IDR team cannot reach a satisfactory agreement, then the complaint moves to the Australian Financial Complaints Authority (AFCA). This is also when the bank’s EDR, or External Dispute Resolution team, also gets involved.

“The AFCA is a single dispute resolution scheme for financial services,” according to an Australian government website. “AFCA can resolve complaints that a financial firm could not resolve at IDR.” This can include issues regarding credit, finance and loans, insurance, banking deposits and payments, investments and financial advice, and pensions.

AFCA acts like an arbiter in resolving customer disputes and both parties agree to abide by its decisions.

Related: Don’t Fear Customer Complaints

When A Customer Is A Victim Of A Scam

My friend at the bank described a common scenario in which a customer is a victim of a scam that has nothing to do with the bank. In fact, a whopping two-thirds of Australians aged 15 years and over were exposed to a scam in 2021-22, according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics.

Many of those affected call their bank for help, and it’s a classic case of it not being the bank’s fault but still being the bank’s problem.

In an attempt to preserve the customer relationship, banks may offer a small courtesy payment. They are under no obligation to do so.

It doesn’t necessarily make the customer whole, but it’s meant to help ease the pain – both financial and psychological – of being victimized by a scammer.

Many customers accept the payment, but those who don’t end up talking with my friend in EDR. And this is where it gets complicated.

You see, my friend has seen these scams hundreds of times. So she knows most appeals fail since it’s not the bank’s fault if the customer fell for a scam.

She explains that the bank’s courtesy payment is the best offer available and that expecting a major government payout is unrealistic. She is empathetic to the distress of scam victims and notes that the courtesy offer expires once an appeal is made, as appeals are costly and time-consuming for the bank.

My friend genuinely wants to help customers, so she tries to steer them toward the courtesy payment. Unfortunately, some customers don’t listen. And almost always, those customers end up with nothing. This is what keeps my friend up at night.

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You Can Lead A Horse To Water…

This story reminded me of the old proverb, “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink,” which dates back to 1175 and might be the oldest English proverb still in use.

Sometimes, though we may have our customers’ best interests in mind, they don’t want to listen to us. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try to make things right, the customer isn’t satisfied. Which reminds me of another famous, but much more recent, quote:

“You tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is, never try.” – Homer Simpson

Of course, my friend does try – again and again. And that’s what makes her so great at her job. She is truly a customer advocate, even if not every customer ends up benefitting from her advocacy.

When she asked me what else she could be doing, I told her she was doing everything she could and advised not to be too hard on herself.

After all, you can lead a customer to water, but you cannot make them drink.

Photos by Dan Gingiss.